I would say I use Soft Peach the most of the 4, but they all get used often To get the eyelash remover, click on the version 2 of the kijiko lashes and scroll down till you see it Kijiko's are smaller and more natural, but you need that mesh for the Plumbobjuice ones to work.
3D Lashes by Kijiko, EA eyelash remover by Kijiko, and 3D Lashes Edit ( This one works w/ glasses) by Plumbobjuice.Doesn't add any features like freckles, dimples, or lip creases, so tons of customization available. Default skins are a MUST!! This skin subtly smooths out weird shadows on the base game skin and goes well with all possible sim types (both monolids and double eyelids work).Knight Default Skin Replacement by Madmono.
Part 1 of all the bare essentials for my sims 4 game! I use these on practically every sim I make.